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A Thought on Self-Confidence

July 28, 2017
I posted this photo on my instagram yesterday and mentioned how I used to be so self-conscious of the rather large birthmark running across my ribs (it is hard to see in the photo above with the filter). However, as I grew older and wiser, I came to realize that instead of being embarrassed by it, I should embrace it because this mark is what makes me an individual. This is a gentle reminder to love yourself because despite what social media advertises, perfection isn't realistic. Instead, I really wish society celebrated the imperfections more often.

Do you know what Enclothed Cognition actually means? I chose this title for my blog because I wanted there to be a focus on building self-confidence within yourself. Working in fashion can get a bad rep because many view it as materialistic and superficial. Yet, if we look at fashion at a different angle, enclothed cognition comes to light and highlights the idea that we can gain confidence by merely feeling good in the clothes we decide to wear.

          Listen: My talk on fashion & self-love via the podcast, "The Tao of Self-Confidence"

I wanted to bring up this subject of self-confidence yet again because I think we all should be continually reminded to love ourselves. I started a new installment on this blog a month ago where I interview people and their take on the correlation between how we dress and how we feel. I will be continuing this segment very soon, so please stay tuned! Also, if you have anyone in particular you wish for me to interview, drop a comment down below.

           Read: Enclothed Cognition - Claudia Jordan



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24 comments on "A Thought on Self-Confidence "
  1. I absolutely love this. Thank you for posting such a well thought out and inspirational post!

    Katherine | www.oneswainkycouple.com

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  2. I love hearing the meaning behind 'enclothed cognition' - this is such a beautiful post :)

    Allie

    www.champagne-tuesdays.com

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  3. Yass work it! Show off that mark because that's what makes you who you are.
    https://sugarcoatedbears.blogspot.com/

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  4. I love this post. I've always found birthmarks quite beautiful and I'm glad to hear it's something that you now embrace, as it's these details which make us each unique. I certainly agree that the way we dress can do a great deal for our confidence and it's amazing what a transformation it can make to someones self esteem. Very wise words indeed, I'm definitely going to go and check out your interview posts. :)

    Samio x
    http://www.samio.co.uk/

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  5. I'm glad your embracing your birthmark and projecting self-confidence to yourself and others.

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  6. U look very gorgeous babe...Great post babe...xx, Neha

    http://www.theinstylejournal.com/

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  7. Loved reading this post! I have a burn scar on my right leg and I have embraced it! :) Have a great day!
    xx
    Shivangi
    www.outoncatwalk.com

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  8. Love this! I have a birthmark on my hip and it makes me who i am, I've learned to embrace it<3

    http://lionesssk.blogspot.com/

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  9. Love this post! I think we are all self conscious sometimes.

    Jennifer
    Effortlessly Sophisticated

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  10. I definitely have more confidence if I feel good in the clothes I wear, so I totally know what you mean. I think fashion, when done right, can really make such a positive difference. You're beautiful inside an out!

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

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  11. I love this post! I started my own blog, Daily Kongfidence to show just that - feeling confident in ourselves no matter what we wear or how we look or how old we are. We should own it and rock it. This top is beautiful and I love that it shows off your birthmark. I can't wait to see more on this self confidence! xoxo, Christine
    http://dailykongfidence.com/

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  12. I love the meaning behind your blog name! I'm all for self-confidence. It is so important to bring awareness!! Thank you again for the reminder!

    www.rdsobsessions.com

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  13. That is such a cool meaning behind your blog name!
    xo
    www.laurajaneatelier.com

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  14. I've always been like this with my boobs, I've always been known as the girl with big boobs, and would love a reduction, but I'd never put my body in a position where I could possibly harm it over something like this. It's quite refreshing to read a blog about someones life, rather than the typical posts about the latest fashion trends, so thank you for this!

    www.BarbaraNanyonga.blogspot.com

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  15. This was such an empowerful post! When I tell everybody that I love the scars that people have they don't believe me but I really mean it. Like, there is an story behind that mark, and it's part of who you are and we should all be proud of them. For example, I have a scar on my forehead, and a lot of people tease me that I'm "Harry Potter" but I laugh when they say that because I fuckin' love Harry and it's an amazing character hahah. So I think we should always look at the bright side of our insecurities.
    I didn't know what enclothed cognition means but I think it's amazing and it shows that you're a beautiful human being that deserves nothing but happiness :)

    www.blossomikebana.com

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  16. I did not know you had a podcast! This is such an uplifting post!

    Briana
    https://beyoutifulbrunette.com/

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  17. It's easier said than done but I cannot agree with your post more. Self confidence should always prevail!

    Angelie // Glamworks Skin Perfector BB Cream Review

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  18. Great message, girl! I'm totally with you, it's so important to constantly remind ourselves to love ourselves. Self-confidence all the way!
    xo
    Siffat
    http://icingandglitter.com

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  19. So good to true!!!

    http://www.martapozzan.com/2017/07/shop-real-real/

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  20. yes girl! couldnt agree more, great post and for sure a topic that should be constantly brought up and reminding others to love themselves

    http://www.thewhimsicalwildling.com/

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  21. What a beautiful post! Keep doing you and inspiring others to pursue their own fashion taste, if it's what makes them feel more confident.

    Jessica | notjessfashion.com

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  22. This post rang a bell with me because I also have a birthmark on my stomach, just above my belly button. I absolutely hated it when I was younger. I hated wearing bikinis because I thought it was so ugly and that everyone was looking at it judging it. Like you, I was so embarrassed about it. It's funny looking back at that now because I am not sure what happened or how my view changed but now I don't even remember it's there half the time.

    Emily | http://emilytrinh.com

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  23. I like the colour of this shirt, it's striking! Nice you paired it with checkered Vans too!

    www.busyandfab.com

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